Ego between partners 2) No communication 3) Stress 4) Not satisfied with each other 5) Don’t trust on each other 6) Abnormal behavior 7) Extra-marital affair 8) Property Are the main reasons for divorce in India. 1. Isolated family system: In olden days people lived as joint family. So the kids know to adjust among others. Now people are living as small independent families… so kids are not much aware of adjusting with others (elders/younger)… So when they get into a new family as a Son in law or daughter in law, they find it difficult to adjust with each other… . Bring up of parents: My father used to bring snacks as a single bundle, from which my mom will divide and give equal shares to all three of us (me and my two brothers)… So, even if I find a pack on a table, I know I have to share with my siblings, where as our neighborhood uncle used to bring two packets of every snack for his daughter and son… He used to tell that to avoid issues he is doing so… But then those kids never learnt sharing… After marriage, the daughter was not ready to share anything with her in-laws family, thinking her husband jumped from sky and he is all her own…
Created lots of mess and currently at her mom’s home… Parents play an important role in bringing up the kids, which teach them a life after marriage also…. Literally I have seen many mothers who teach their daughters to take care of their husbands in such a way that the guys come out of their families, leaving their parents…. 3. Comparision: In a tamil movie called Johny, a character (played by Deepa) has a habit of looking for better options… So even changes her boy friend looking for better monetary benefits….
I know few gals, who have this habit of comparing their life with others and spoil their own 2. Infidelity 3. Infidelity has been and will continue to be one of the most common reasons for divorce, be it India or any other country. A marriage is based on trust and the moment either of the partners breaks this trust by indulging in an extra-marital affair, you can be sure that irreparable damage has been done to the relationship. In maximum cases, the best possible way out for the aggrieved partner seems to be divorce. . 5. Nosy Mother-in-law 6. Though it is said that a mother-in-law is like a second mother to a newly married girl, there are a few females who don’t agree with this. They regard their daughter-in-law to be a threat to their position in the family and fail to recognize that after their son gets married; he needs to give time and attention to his wife also. The result is that intentionally or unintentionally, they create problems between husband and wife, which – if it gets out of control, leads to divorce. 7. . Lack of Adjustments 9. Due to the newly found financial independence, many females are not ready to adjust with their partners at all. They believe themselves to be equal and, sometimes, even superior to men and are not ready to compromise even the slightest bit. Men have always had an ego and saying sorry doesn’t come naturally to them. Earlier, women were ready to change and bend, which is not the case now. The result is Divorce, even at the slightest of arguments. 10. 11. Unreasonable Expectations 12.
These days, most of the people are going in for love marriages. They do not realize that things will not remain the same, as they were in the courtship period. Marriage brings with itself many responsibilities. The result is that partners are able to devote less time to their partners and might not be able to remain as patient as before. Slowly and gradually, the relationship starts to deteriorate and leads to divorce. Even in arranged marriages, people expect the honeymoon period to last forever and when it doesn’t, the result is Divorce! 3. 14. Lack of Physical Intimacy 15. Another major cause of divorce that is being recognized by the society, but not spoken about openly, is the lack of physical intimacy. In the frenzied pace of city life, people have forgotten to tell their partners how much they love them, either verbally or physically. The dissatisfaction resulting from this, combined with the fact that now men as well as women do not shy away from expressing their needs, is becoming a very common reason of divorce.